• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Work With Me
  • About Me
  • Group Trips
  • Nav Social Menu

    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • LinkedIn
    • Pinterest
    • Twitter
    • YouTube

Halee with a Flair

Travel Blogger-Travel Tips & Hacks

  • Cruising
  • Travel
  • Hotels
  • Disney
  • Travel Deals & Tips

I Am Fat and I Forgive You

October 21, 2019

I had an absolutely amazing weekend.  Spending much needed quality time with my daughter is exactly what I needed.  This week was really great on the blog as I received a wonderful feature post from Shapermint on their social media.  This was a great confidence booster and I felt so supported by them and my readers.  However, you always need to take the good with the bad.  A few folks felt the need to comment on these posts about my size in a rather nasty manner. Well guess what, I am fat and I forgive you.

Look this is bullshit. Your still FAT! what in the hell does this do for you? You put it on, go to a bar, find a guy and then when you get to the room your shit comes out and the guy bolts. Put the fork down and do it the real way.

— Robgmesman (@rgmesman) October 19, 2019

I’m not going to lie, another F word came to mind before I decided to forgive these people.  However, I had to draw myself back and focus.  I am thankful to be supported by friends, family, followers and by Shapermint.  This whole situation made me realize how much I need to put my own feelings aside and be a role model for others.

I’m fluent in three languages, hate is not one of them ??‍♀️ If you’d like to learn more, check out my blog https://t.co/ykgs5wcdOR ❤️ Thanks @shapermint for having my back!

— Halee Whiting (@HaleeWithaFlair) October 19, 2019

One word cannot begin to define someone.  The old saying is that a picture is worth a thousand words.  Let me tell just a few of the words that are in this photo.  CONFIDENT.  I have blonde hair, blue eyes, a terrific rack and felt amazing in my outfit.  MATERNAL. I am the mother to a beautiful little girl who I strive everyday to show how to be her best self.  DILIGENT.  I am a hard working person with a fantastic job that enables me to live this beautiful life. ADVENTUROUS. I may be fat but I love free diving, snorkeling, scuba diving, hiking and cliff jumping.

Why would someone decide to forgive someone who is so hurtful?  There are many reasons.  I simply hope that this person was having a bad day when he decided to take out some frustration on a complete stranger. I can handle it.  I’m fat and have thick skin (see what I did there? LOL).  By taking an insult from this person, I hope that I may have spared hurt feelings generated by his frustrations for the important women in this person’s life.  I’ve decided to take this insult and make an example out of it. So really, I’d like to thank this person for giving me good writing material.

I want to encourage all of you to try something.  Write down five things that describe you as a person and then ask a friend to do the same for you.  We all are our own worst critics and I’m so guilty of dragging myself down at times.  If you try to love yourself and surround yourself with positive people, you will not lose this battle.  If someone has not told you this yet today, you are beautiful and you matter.

Thank all of you for your continued love and support! If you want to call me fat or any other names. Please go ahead. I am fat and I will forgive you.

Check out Shapermint: https://shapermint.com/

For more body positivity and self loves posts check out these:

The Social Media Scam
I’m so Worthless-Why this Needs to Stop!
Liked it? Take a second to support Halee with a Flair on Patreon!
Become a patron at Patreon!

Related

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Michael says

    July 2, 2021 at 4:38 pm

    I think you’re very attractive. Your husband is so lucky to be with a person who is so kind and thoughtful.

    • Halee with a Flair says

      July 5, 2021 at 2:38 pm

      Thank you!

Trackbacks

  1. Fat Girls Should Not Wear Lingerie says:
    November 25, 2019 at 10:53 pm

    […] I Am Fat and I Forgive You Your Fat Friend is not the Patron Saint for Fat Girls 5 Steps to get the Perfect Bikini Body Liked it? Take a second to support Halee with a Flair on Patreon! Tagged adore me, air brushed, bbw, blonde, body positive, body positivity, bombshell, boobs, breasts, c section, curvy, curvy model, diy, fashion, fat, fat girls, fat girls should not wear lingerie, highlights, jc penney, lingerie, make up, model, modeling, obese, obesity, old navy, pcos, pin up, plus size, plus size fashion, plus size model, polycystic ovarian syndrome, scar, stretch marks, torrid […]

Primary Sidebar

Welcome!

Welcome!

Thank you for stopping by. My name is Halee and I'm a blogger from Rochester, NY that focuses on travel, fashion and lifestyle posts. Find out more about me and what I post in the About Me Section!

Pinterest

Facebook

Facebook Pagelike Widget

Twitter

My Tweets

SUBSCRIBE

For the latest and greastest adventures
Loading

Blog Archive

The little woman is my reason why. Looking back on The little woman is my reason why. Looking back on all our adventures from Hawaii to Europe and everything in between. So many more to come.

#womensday #internationalwomensday #travelgram #motherdaughter #traveldiary #mommyandme
El Cielo-The original #nofilter 🇲🇽 One of El Cielo-The original #nofilter 🇲🇽 

One of my favorite things to do in Cozumel is get a private charter and snorkel 🤿 There are so many wonderful opportunities and the water is gorgeous. At El Cielo you can see starfish and rays!

#elcielo #mexico #cozumel #snorkeling #quintanaroo #playadelcarmen #cruiseships #cruiseexcursion #royalcaribbean #celebritycruises #disneycruise #carnivalcruise
I’m okay, I promise 😊 📍 Petit France, St I’m okay, I promise 😊 

📍 Petit France, Strasbourg 🇫🇷

One of the most amazing things about social media is connecting with beautiful people all over the world. I’ve received a lot of DMs asking if I’m alright since there hasn’t been a lot of content lately. I am good and so blessed to have you all ask.

The short of it is that my hotel business has been growing at a wild pace. Im very blessed to have that success and at the end of the day, that is what pays the bills.

I still plan on sharing content and tips with all of you. I am narrowing a lot of my content down to video and am putting a strong focus on YouTube because that is where I can give the most detailed tips. You will still see me here too ❤️

Thank you all for your support and continued friendship. 

#travel #france #strasbourg #plussize #plussizetravel #travelblogger #rivercruise #petitfrance #traveltips #travelgram #francetravel #francetrip
What’s your favorite shade of blue? 🌊 @cele What’s your favorite shade of blue? 🌊 

@celebritycruises #celebrityreflection 

#celebrity #celebritycruises #cruising #seaday #dayatsea #celebritysummit #celebrityapex #celebrityedge #celebritybeyond #journeywonderfull #cruises #cruiseships #royalcaribbean #cruising #cruiseships #cruiseblogger #ocean #oceanbeach
Best place to stay in Strasbourg, France 🇫🇷 Best place to stay in Strasbourg, France 🇫🇷 

📍 @maisonrougehotelspa 

@marriotthotels @marriottbonvoy @autographhotels @strasbourgtourisme @strasbourgcity 

#strasbourg #france #francetravel #marriott #marriottbonvoy #marriottbonvoymoments #autographhotels #maisonrouge #strasbourg🇫🇷 #strasbourgcity #strasbourgmonamour #strasbourgfrance #frenchtravel #francetrip #christmasmarket #christmasmarkets #luxuryhotel #traveltips
Christmas in Strasbourg, France 🇫🇷 🎄 @s Christmas in Strasbourg, France 🇫🇷 🎄 

@strasbourgtourisme @explorefrance 

#christmas #christmasmarket #strasbourg #strasbourgcity #strasbourgmonamour #strasbourgtourisme #strasbourgfrance #christmasmarket #christmasmarkets #alsace #alsacetourisme #alsacefrance #capitaledenoel #travel #traveltips #travelinspo #francetravel #travelblogger #cntraveler
Would you stay here? 🎄 📍 @westinnashville Would you stay here? 🎄 

📍 @westinnashville 

@marriotthotels @marriottbonvoy @westin @visitmusiccity @nashvilletn 

#hotels #nashville #hoteltour #roomtour #marriottbonvoy #westin #luxuryhotel #nashvilletennessee #nashvilletn #nashvillegram #marriott #hotel #hotelier
Have you been to the Christmas market in Frankfurt Have you been to the Christmas market in Frankfurt?🎄🇩🇪❤️

📍 @visitfrankfurt 🏨 @westingrandfrankfurt 

#christmas #christmasmarkets #christmasmarket #rivercruise #rivercruising #vikingrivercruise #germanchristmasmarket #germanytravel #germanytrip #traveltips #frankfurt #frankfurtgermany #frankfurtcity #frankfurtchristmasmarket #travelblogger #christmasingermany #amawaterways #uniworld
Did you know that Cologne, Germany has multiple Ch Did you know that Cologne, Germany has multiple Christmas Markets? 🎄🇩🇪❤️

@visit_koeln @heinzelswintermaerchen 

#christmas #christmasmarkets #christmasmarket #cologne #colognegermany #colognecathedral #rhineriver #rhinerivercruise #rivercruise #rivercruising #vikingrivercruise #germanchristmasmarket #germanytravel #germanytrip #traveltips #colognecity #heinzelswintermärchen
I just wanted to bust out in song the whole time i I just wanted to bust out in song the whole time in this fairytale place!

📍 Strasbourg, France @strasbourgtourisme 

#strasbourg #strasbourgmonamour #strasbourgfrance #francetravel #petitefrance #christmasmarkets #christmasmarket #francetravel #francetrip #bucketlist #germany #traveltips #travelinspiration #travelinspo

Copyright © 2023 · InfluencerTP on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in